It’s pain to defer traditional life choices like career and relationships.
But it’s necessary to reach the next echelon, as it takes time to learn and grow beyond what is conventionally possible.
Could it all happen simultaneously? Perhaps for some people.
Though it’s not an easy selling point to say; the person you see now, I don’t plan on behind for long.
On one hand, people don’t like change. And a partner changing for the better, creates a whole host of problems.
On the other hand, it’s natural for someone to doubt that you will change for the better, and achieve what you say you will achieve.
One thing is certain – life is not worth it, if you deny what you were destined to pursue.