There is a confidence one can only gain from knowing where one wants to go. You’ve confirmed a vision of a desirable future, and you treat your happiness and suffering as a utilitarian would.

It’s one of the hardest things to do, to acknowledge your suffering and treat it as real. This is how one can gain self-respect, by establishing a track record of the pain you’ve experienced.

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